THE BEAUTY OF A FLEXIBLE HEART: Preparing for Marriage God’s Way

THE BEAUTY OF A FLEXIBLE HEART: Preparing for Marriage God’s Way On Culture Apothecary, host Alex Clark and author Tilly Dillehay had one of the most honest conversations I’ve heard about marriage preparation and the single woman’s heart. Tilly, pastor’s wife and author of My Dear Hemlock, said something that stuck with me: “I think another thing that you can be […]

The Argument Trap

The Argument Trap     Have you ever found yourself being argumentative—debating or combating every comment, statement, idea, or thought? I sure have. The BEST is when you and your spouse BOTH do it. Then it’s constant bickering back and forth, and no one catches a break. A few weeks ago, Rich and I found […]

How NOT to Treat Your Husband in Public

How NOT to Treat Your Husband in Public Recently, Rich and I went to dinner with another couple at a beautiful, romantic restaurant—the kind of place that feels special and intimate. The lights were low, the music soft, the atmosphere designed for connection. It was the kind of spot you’d pick for an anniversary, a […]

FROM COMFORT TO CALLING: Embrace Discomfort to Fulfill Your Purpose

FROM COMFORT TO CALLING: Embrace Discomfort to Fulfill Your Purpose Why do you behave that way?  Why are you so defensive?  Why can’t you just believe that I love you?  What is wrong with you that you won’t LET me love you?  Why do you think the worst?   These are all questions I was faced with in my marriage.  I […]

Taking Charge: Living Beyond Hormonal Chaos

Taking Charge: Living Beyond Hormonal Chaos  I recently saw this hilarious video of a woman seething through her teeth, ranting about how her husband had suggested that “he thinks she might be starting her period soon.” She snarls, “HOW FREAKIN’ DARE HE!! HE’S GOT NO IDEA WHEN MY PERIOD IS COMING!!” By the end, she […]

WIFE 101: Essential Life Skills for the Modern Bride

WIFE 101: Essential Life Skills for the Modern Bride Whether you’re single and ready to mingle or a seasoned wife with kids, this list is packed with timeless traits inspired by Proverbs 31:10-31.  The “virtuous wife” standards are just the same for a virtuous woman—single or married. And don’t worry, nobody scores a perfect 10 […]

Speak To Your King – Part 1

Speak to Your King – Part 1 “There’s a king and a fool in every person, and the one you speak to is the one you will see emerge.  So if I’m feeling like, “Oh, he’s such a fool, he’s so ignorant, and he doesn’t pray, and he’s not a spiritual leader, and he doesn’t […]

Living In The Moment!

Living In The Moment!   Hi to all my beautiful friends and readers! Life in Indonesia has been full of miracles, challenges, new relationships, and faith-building opportunities.  I am learning so much and can’t express how important this next topic is for you. For us.  Life can get pretty hectic, can’t it? Deadlines, responsibilities, and […]

Who Do You Run To?

My husband takes off about 3-4 times a year on trips overseas, and I get ditched occasionally. SAD. But I survive. He is currently away on a 3-week trip, and the time apart is precious to us both. Yes, you read that right. We love being able to separate for short periods of time… because […]

LIPSTICK ON A PIG: Fake Peace

My husband and I ain’t scared of conflict.  I married a brute of a man… and if we are going to be honest, he married a brute of a woman💁‍♀️. YOU LOOKIN AT ME CROSS?? You got a problem?? You got something to say?? BRING IT ON. Get it out! Let’s get it out on […]