THE BEAUTY OF A FLEXIBLE HEART: Preparing for Marriage God’s Way

THE BEAUTY OF A FLEXIBLE HEART: Preparing for Marriage God’s Way On Culture Apothecary, host Alex Clark and author Tilly Dillehay had one of the most honest conversations I’ve heard about marriage preparation and the single woman’s heart. Tilly, pastor’s wife and author of My Dear Hemlock, said something that stuck with me: “I think another thing that you can be […]

WIFE 101: Essential Life Skills for the Modern Bride

WIFE 101: Essential Life Skills for the Modern Bride Whether you’re single and ready to mingle or a seasoned wife with kids, this list is packed with timeless traits inspired by Proverbs 31:10-31.  The “virtuous wife” standards are just the same for a virtuous woman—single or married. And don’t worry, nobody scores a perfect 10 […]

Sex Before Marriage?  What’s the Big Deal?

I was recently talking with a friend from back home in Montana. She has found herself right in the middle of the dating world. She’s in her early 30s, looks great, has a successful career, and has a ministry of her own. Looking at her life, it seems like the only thing she could possibly […]

The Dangers Of Romanticizing Life

If you have ever taken a gander at the book of Song of Solomon, you are either totally lost and confused… or you’re feeling a little flushed and embarrassed at some of those hot and heavy scenes.  The romance in that book is TOP NOTCH.  Poetic, romantic, and beautiful, and talk about the sexual tension between two […]

CHRISTIAN DATING: WHAT ARE THE RULES?! 

Something has been bothering me regarding single people within the church. Single people, both young and old, are serving in the church, attending life groups, some even leading their own ministries, and all of a sudden, they leave the church, only to be seen on Instagram “happier than they’ve ever been” with a significant other […]

Is A “Boss Babe” Biblical?

Urban Dictionary: BOSS BABE A woman who owns her own business. As a center of influence, she knows what she wants and goes for it. She’s in charge of her life and makes no apologies or excuses for who she is.Authentic, ambitious, confident, talented, magnetic, focused, relentless, and full of grit. Unfortunately, so much feminism is being crammed down our throats […]

IS FALLING IN LOVE ENOUGH??

“The worst Prison in the world is a home without peace. Be careful who you marry or fall in love with.”  – Unknown  Did you know you can fall in love with someone that is NOT a suitable spouse?  Yes, it’s true ladies.  LOVE does not equal a GOOD MARRIAGE or GOD’S WILL.   In other parts of the world such as India, […]

Don’t Partner with A Rebel 

Who here thinks life is hard? Raise your hand.  I see all your hands and feet being raised; thank you.   Who here wants to make sure your life is as difficult as possible? Raise your hand… No one.  Really?  No one at all?   Well, just in case someone is reading this who is too shy to participate, let […]

Learning To Be An Individual

I can tell you that I did NOT know who I was when I was single.  I wasn’t even sure what that meant.   I went from being a kid with no stable father figure to having a boyfriend at age 10…, and I honestly can’t remember a time when I WASN’T in a “boyfriend/girlfriend […]

Season Of Singleness: God’s Portion

BROKEN LITTLE GIRLS… I was a little girl who was broken.  My guess is that you were too. I have a handful of beautiful memories with my father. I remember riding on the tank of his motorcycle with him to get ice cream at the petting zoo down the country road in Montana. I always had […]